I read a lot of posts. Here and other sites. Mostly on online dating. I’m realizing that most folks think online dating is like buying merchandise online. Check the size, color and fit… if all seem to match ur requirements, then presto, u should be in a relationship. Sorry folks it doesn’t work that way. The profiles you are looking at are actually ppl. They have feelings, baggage and idiosyncrasies. We tend to be so hard on the ppl we date but are we passing up a great person because they don’t fit our idea of perfect?