Or am I living in the wrong town? I mean damn. It used be as a woman, I flirt, men flirt back. Numbers are exchanged and then he waited a day or two, not to seem eager and then the chase was on. Now I flirt, he flirts, numbers exchange and… nothing, nada, zlich, zip, zero. I mean wtf. If I make initial contact it still doesn’t make a damn difference.
Even if a guy shows interest, that doesn’t last long. I am currently, sort of, talking to about 3 or 4 guys. Only one has gotten to the dating stage and he lives in NC. We only text or talk when he is in route to Philly or actually in town. Wtf is that?
It seems the most they want to do is come over for a movie. They never want to go out and do anything. Look I know the economy is dicked right now. I know about being tired. But come on ppl, work with me. Is it men are opting out of relationships and just going for the quick lay and that’s why there isn’t any pursuit? Once they realize that I want to go and actually be out in the world, go dancing and eat at resturants they decide I’m too much work and opt out for a chick willing to put out and cook for them at her home?
Idk, my guy friends are forever trying to hook me up with someone but what happens if it doesn’t go as planned? He has to hear the guy bitch about the hook up.
Fuck it, tired of thinking about it, I’m hitting the showers.
Love and Later Days,