So, I’ve been engaged since 2014. We didn’t want to get married while I was pregnant because I didn’t want to walk down the aisle in a maternity wedding dress. After seeing pictures of me pregnant, that was a great executive decision, I was H-U-G-E. Then I was breastfeeding (sorry fellas) and any woman who has breastfed knows the kind of hi-jinx that can happen with a white or a light colored fabric… yup an awful version of a wet t-shirt contest. After that it was money issues.
I really could marry Raleigh in a Church house or outhouse. I love him to death and just want to be his wife but he wants something a smidge more elegant than an outhouse, which I now understand after seeing it up close. I have a frenemy who met a guy and married him within a month just so she could beat me the alter. She got married at a courthouse, no shade to anyone who got married that way, my parents did and were married over 40 years until my dad died in 2012 but after witnessing it on FB (I wasn’t invited just got tagged in the post), I wouldn’t want that for me and Raleigh. I want to see Raleigh, Bubba and my step-son in nice suits or tuxes, my daughters and step-daughter in nice tea-length dresses or gowns. Some nice pictures to remember the occasion and a little wine, accompanied by dancing wouldn’t hurt either.
With 2017 just starting, we want to try for another baby and buy a house, I don’t want to go into the poor house and we’re just getting started. I don’t want to come back from our honeymoon and have to eat Ramon noodles either. Which means I’ll be planning on a shoestring budget because I don’t want another New Year to pass and we’re not married. I’ve been thinking of this cool place called Chapel by the Sea, Raleigh told me about it last year. He didn’t want secular music played but they have prerecorded music they play at every wedding and it was kind of standing room only, if we choose to do it outdoors, we can take pictures on the beach though, Idk. We’ll talk some more, hell I haven’t even picked a dress yet, partially because I don’t know what style I want and also because I want to lose about 40lbs, I’m already down 12lbs. We’ll see and I’ll keep you posted (lucky you).
Love and Later Days